WHY REWARD YOURSELF WHEN YOU WANT TO DO NOTHING

We’ve all been there, having moments of fatigue, apathy or burnout, when the only thing you feel like doing is nothing. While this isn’t always a sign of chronic depression requiring professional help, it’s important to recognise that this feeling is completely normal. It’s useful to switch off and rest from time to time. However, the issue arises when your system pulls the ‘I don’t wanna do anything’ plug unexpectedly, i.e. when you’re halfway through a critical project that might’ve even well excited you initially but now feels overwhelming.

When a certain task is a part of your overarching goal, but you’re feeling stuck, forcing yourself through the process might not help. Instead, unconventional approaches can be surprisingly effective as they tend to break the established patterns and hence reset the system. Here’s a creative spin on tackling lack of motivation:

The ‘Do Nothing’ Challenge

Sometimes the best way to overcome a lack of motivation is to leverage it. Permit yourself to do absolutely nothing, but with a twist: set a timer for 30 minutes. Ironically, the simple act of scheduling ‘nothing’ might jumpstart your productivity once the timer goes off. Trick your brain by actively telling yourself not to do anything productive. More often than not, this reverse psychology can lead to getting started on tasks you’ve been avoiding.

You can even try a ‘Do Nothing Day,’ where you intentionally schedule a day to be completely unproductive. By giving yourself the freedom to be idle, you might just reignite your drive to be active again.

Contradictory Scheduling

Break the monotony of your task by doing something opposite to your main work. If you’ve got a big project hanging over your head, schedule something like binge-watching a show during work hours. By denying yourself permission to return to work, you might trigger that subtle urge of responsibility that nudges you back into productivity.

This method works through the same mechanism as delayed gratification — our brain often craves what it’s told it cannot have. So, by scheduling intentional procrastination, you might spark a counterintuitive sense of urgency to get things done.

Reward Yourself

Incentives can be incredibly powerful. As kids, we were often rewarded by our parents, but as adults, we sometimes neglect to treat ourselves with the same kindness, taking our efforts for granted. Until one day your unconscious goes: ‘What are all these struggles for if there’s no joy from all this work’ — and activates a self-sabotage mode. 

Make it a habit to plan a fun activity or a treat as a reward for completing a task. It doesn’t matter if the reward is big or small — it could be a simple can of Coke or a cup of coffee in the park. The key is to mark the completion of the task and to recognise your effort. The anticipation of this reward can motivate you to finish tasks more efficiently. By creating a positive association between work and reward, you build a pattern that reinforces and enhances your motivation.

Handy twist: Schedule your ‘reward’ activity — whether it’s going to the cinema with friends, or another option for time out — in your diary right after work. Make sure it’s not at home, so you can’t return to work. And stick to it regardless of whether you finish work on time or not. This way you’ll have pressure to finish your tasks on time and will be more inclined to cut distractions to remain focused. 

If you don’t manage to complete your work on time — and that might likely be the case at the start, especially if you’re trapped into a cycle of habitual procrastination — yet you go for the planned fun activity, you’ll establish a precedent that you stick to your schedule. Hence, your brain will quickly start learning that work needs to be done on time. And that there’s no ‘extra’ time. 

While you might start feeling guilty for not finishing your tasks yet setting on enjoying your reward, it’s important to reframe this. Remind yourself that you’re rewarding yourself for sticking to your new system and making an effort to improve your productivity. 

Infuse Micro-Adventures into Your Day

Routine can dull our senses. Inject excitement into your day with micro-adventures — small but novel activities that break up the monotony. Take a spontaneous walk in a nearby park, try a new recipe, or learn a random quirky skill. These fresh experiences can boost your creativity and energy.

Novelty stimulates your brain and can act as a reset button, helping you counteract lethargy and reignite motivation.

Break the Pattern with Extreme Self-Care

When you’re feeling down or extremely demotivated, go beyond typical self-care by treating yourself to something extraordinarily indulgent such as a spa day, a gourmet meal, or an elaborate hobby.

Traditionally we only reward ourselves once we believe we’ve ‘earned’ it. However, reminding ourselves that we’re worthy of unconditional happiness and self-love can boost our inner drive far beyond what stick and carrot can achieve. 

In a series of behavioural experiments, researchers found that occasionally giving underperforming animals unexpected treats leads to increased drive and productivity. This randomness disrupts usual behaviour patterns, tapping into an innate desire for reward, even when it’s not tied to immediate performance.

In behavioural psychology, B.F. Skinner’s theory of operant conditioning explains how behavior is shaped through reinforcement — either positive or negative. A key insight from this is that gratuitous reinforcement — the act of giving rewards unexpectedly or seemingly without a reason— can significantly boost motivation. 

Disclaimer: like any magic pill, this method needs to be applied in moderation, to prevent a reverse effect. 

The ‘What If’ Game

To challenge your inertia, imagine exaggerated consequences for not completing your tasks. For example, write down a series of humorous or fictional scenarios where your inaction leads to wild, dramatic outcomes. Perhaps in your story, failing to send that email leads to the collapse of your entire company, or not finishing a report causes an international crisis. The absurdity of these scenarios can make you laugh and, ironically, help you take action.

This playful strategy can jolt you into seeing your tasks in a new light, injecting energy into situations that once felt dull.

Transform Tasks into Art Projects

Reframe mundane tasks as creative projects. If you need to write a report, think of it as crafting a masterpiece or telling a story. Use colours, drawings, or unconventional formats to make your work more engaging.

This artistic approach to productivity can add an element of excitement to otherwise boring tasks. By transforming them into opportunities for creative expression, you make the process more enjoyable and, ultimately, more productive.

Summary

When you feel like doing nothing, conventional methods often fail to break the cycle. Unconventional strategies, like forced idleness, reverse psychology, and creative self-care, can be surprisingly effective in restarting your motivation ‘engine.’ 

By experimenting with these approaches, you can turn periods of apathy into opportunities for growth, sparking new motivation when you need it most.

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