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When you’re seven, those ten-year-olds might as well be from another planet — they seem so mature and grown-up. Back then, reaching double digits felt like an eternity away, almost like it belonged to another lifetime, the one filled with opportunities. You knew that all you needed was to become an adult for your dreams to come true.

Fast forward to 17, and you’re counting down the days until you hit 18, whatever the reasons might be. It’s that magical threshold, promising a taste of newfound freedom albeit bound by responsibility, eagerly anticipated as if it was a key to open that door of unlimited potential your future was about to unfold.

Yet, soon the moment comes and the years start blurring together, with you yearning for a pause button on a life’s relentless spin, sometimes veering off course.

You might find yourself wondering whether that number of years that’s left to hit the next milestone is sufficient for a significant change of already solidified circumstances or any meaningful accomplishments. Or, maybe ‘it’s time for a reality check’ and acceptance of the fact that we’re the average on a scale of what we boldly pictured once before.

No matter where you are in life, whether you’re a homemaker, a businessman, a businesswoman, someone navigating through casual relationships, or an individual settling for less out of fear of not finding something better, be it in love or career. Whether you’re a man or a woman settling for a convenient but no longer fulfilling relationship. Whether you’re a clerk who has given up on big dreams or feels trapped in a routine, unable to pursue the business venture they’ve always wanted, or a successful figure who keeps delaying pursuing their true desires, thinking ‘one day soon.’

Many of us grapple with the nagging feeling that we could’ve done better, we should have done and yet all effort get paralysed by the fear that it’s too late to pursue anything better. Comparison and discontentment breed a sense of unfulfilled destiny, until one day, some resign themselves to fate, opting for complacency over struggle.

While genuinely finding peace with our lives is admirable, resigning ourselves to misery is not. Our emotional state colours our perception, but our choices shape our reality. So why do some achieve great success while others, despite their efforts, get stuck, unable to accomplish any notable change or get closer to desired outcomes?

The adage ‘whether you think you can or can’t, you’re right’ underscores the power of belief. We rarely leap into the unknown unless we’re confident in our ability to land safely. Yet, our unconscious, driven by a primal instinct for safety, erects barriers to shield us from perceived harm, often hindering our progress.

Our actions — or lack thereof — are dictated by our beliefs, many of which are inherited or adopted without conscious awareness. Until we challenge and reshape these limiting beliefs, our behaviours remain unchanged, no matter how hard we try.

Warren Buffett once remarked that change is easy until it becomes hard — a sentiment echoed by the inertia of habit. We cling to familiar routines and circumstances, convinced they’re ingrained and unchangeable, even when they no longer serve us.

The truth is, the power for change resides within us. Our minds, infinitely potent, hold the key to our transformation that is a lobby of lives filled with limitless potential. It’s only through continuous self-discovery and a relentless examination of our deepest desires, coupled with a willingness to challenge outdated beliefs, overcoming a fear of uncertainty, that we can rediscover the full potential of our inner selves and experience true abundance across all areas of our lives. 

Join us on this exciting journey to fulfilment and self-realisation, one bold step at a time.